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Starfield romance options: How to romance each companion in Starfield

How to romance Sarah, Sam, Barrett, and Andreja

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Looking for a list of all Starfield romance options? Like many major RPGs, Starfield lets you fall in love with companions as you travel. Romance in Starfield serves many purposes beyond just roleplay, though: you'll get frequent gifts, unlock exciting new quests, and even net a large XP bonus that'll help you level up faster. If you're wondering how romance works, or want to see all Starfield romance options, then you're in the right place.

In this guide, we'll break down all Starfield romance options, covering how to romance each of the four possible companions. We'll also explain how to romance in Starfield, to give you a better understanding of how this mechanic actually works.

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How to romance in Starfield

In Starfield, romance is dictated by a hidden score called Affinity. To romance a companion, you must raise a character's Affinity by travelling with them and making decisions that they like.

All of the romanceable companions in Starfield are members of Constellation, which means they are generally good-aligned characters. That means none of them will be comfortable with you committing particularly heinous crimes, such as murder.

As your Affinity with a character grows, you'll learn more about their backstory. Eventually, this will culminate in them starting a companion quest, which will involve you helping them clear up something important from their past.

After completing this quest, you'll have the option to enter a romantic relationship with the associated companion. Wait a little longer and you'll be able to propose to them, which will then start a "Commitment" quest in which you attend the wedding ceremony and get married.

Starfield romance options: Who can you romance?

There are four romance options in Starfield, and they are all members of Constellation. Below, you can find all four Starfield romance options:

  • Sarah Morgan (she/her)
  • Sam Coe (he/him)
  • Barrett (he/him)
  • Andreja (she/her)

Below, we'll explain how to romance each of the four Starfield romance options.

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Sarah Morgan

We have a full guide on how to romance Sarah Morgan, but here's the skinny:

  1. Complete the "The Old Neighborhood" main quest.
  2. Raise affinity by doing good deeds, showing commitment to Constellation, and avoiding unnecessary fights.
  3. Choose the [FLIRT] dialogue options whenever you get the chance.
  4. Complete the "In Memoriam" companion quest and select the [ROMANCE] dialogue option at the end.
  5. Raise affinity with Sarah further, and then select the [COMMITMENT] dialogue option.
  6. Complete the "Commitment: Sarah" quest to marry Sarah.
Starfield image showing Sam Coe at the entrance to Akila City.
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Sam Coe

We have a full guide on how to romance Sam Coe, but here are the basic steps needed:

  1. Complete the "The Empty Nest" main quest.
  2. Raise affinity by doing good deeds, being kind to Cora Coe, and avoiding unnecessary fights.
  3. Choose the [FLIRT] dialogue options whenever you get the chance.
  4. Complete the "Matters of the Hart" companion quest and select the [ROMANCE] dialogue option at the end.
  5. Raise affinity with Sam further, and then select the [COMMITMENT] dialogue option.
  6. Complete the "Commitment: Sam Coe" quest to marry Sam.
Starfield image showing Barrett stood in a grassy field.
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Barrett

We have a full guide on how to romance Barrett, but here are the needed steps:

  1. Complete the "Back to Vectera" main quest.
  2. Raise affinity by doing good deeds, showing commitment to Constellation, and avoiding unnecessary fights.
  3. Choose the [FLIRT] dialogue options whenever you get the chance.
  4. Complete the "Breach of Contract" companion quest and select the [ROMANCE] dialogue option at the end.
  5. Raise affinity with Barrett further, and then select the [COMMITMENT] dialogue option.
  6. Complete the "Commitment: Barrett" quest to marry Barrett.
Andreja stands with her arms crossed looking at the camera in The Lodge in Starfield.
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Andreja

We have a full guide on how to romance Andreja, but here's the lowdown:

  1. Complete the "Into the Unknown" main quest.
  2. Raise affinity by stealing, intimidating enemies, and showing commitment to House Va'Ruun.
  3. Choose the [FLIRT] dialogue options whenever you get the chance.
  4. Complete the "Divided Loyalties" companion quest and select the [ROMANCE] dialogue option at the end.
  5. Raise affinity with Andreja further, and then select the [COMMITMENT] dialogue option.
  6. Complete the "Commitment: Andreja" quest to marry Andreja.

That wraps up our guide on Starfield romance options. For more help on your adventure among the stars, take a look at our guides on how to get rich quick and how to level up fast in Starfield. If you're about to make a new character, check out our guides on all Starfield traits, all Starfield backgrounds, and the best builds in Starfield.

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